Allah lagi, Allah terus

Aku sering menemui situasi dimana aku sudah begitu yakin akan persepsi yang aku bangun sendiri, tapi sering kali juga, persepsiku itu langsung dirubah oleh Nya semudah membalikkan telapak tangan. Allah memang luar biasa... 

Terkadang, saat situasi berjalan tidak sesuai dengan ucapan ku sebelumnya, ada rasa malu pada diriku, malu pada manusia tentunya. Malu karena terkesan tidak komit terhadap apa yang telah aku katakan.

Sedikit demi sedikit aku mulai menyadari bahwa menjadi begitu kekeuh dengan sebuah persepsi akan sesuatu yang sudah aku buat, tidak selamanya baik. Karena, kehidupan ini berproses. Selalu akan ada faktor lain diluar kita. Sesuatu bisa saja berubah karena Allah telah me-setting nya demikian. Dan sekali lagi, Allah lah yang Maha Membolak-balikkan. Allah yang Maha Memutuskan. Pemikiran kita saat ini, belum tentu menjadi pemikiran kita besok. Dulu aku secara keras hati menganggap ini adalah sikap "plin-plan" yang tidak baik. Iya, kalau setiap hari berubah pikiran g jelas, mungkin itu namanya plin-plan. Tapi, kalau berubah persepsi akan sesuatu karena Allah yang beri petunjuk, kita bisa apa? Masa' mau mengingkari petunjuk-petunjuknya? Bisa susah hidup kita nanti. Allah berusaha kasih jalan kemudahan, kita malah kekeuh dengan jalan yang jauh lebih rumit, ruwet.

Sekarang, aku hanya bisa memperbanyak doa ku kepada Allah, agar Allah beri aku pencerahan. Agar Allah selalu menempatkan aku di posisi terbaik. Insyaallah aku percaya sama Allah. As long as I am not stop to try, as long as I'm not stop to Ikhtiar and istiqomah, Insyaallah I'll find my way. The best way..

Yah, memang segala hal itu harus dikembalikan ke Allah ya. Allah lagi, Allah terus. Allah Allah Allah... Subhanallah.. I feel so small.. kalau sudah begini, g penting lagi malu sama manusia, tapi malu sama Allah. Malu karena sering berpikir dan bertindak sok pintar. Seolah-olah sudah tahu segalanya. Seolah-olah sudah paham banget apa yang terbaik dan apa yang terburuk. Allah lagi, Allah terus. Insyaallah..

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

Komunitas Muslimah Sanggau - Empowering Community in Sanggau,West Borneo

New Friends insyaallah Faedah for Us and for Society :)

Komunitas Muslimah Sanggau - First Event

Here they are my new community, my new friends "Komunitas Muslimah Sanggau".

At the begining, bu Mayar, introduced me to her friends who want to build a community for moslem in Sanggau. Then, here I am, become one of them. 

In there I share my knowledge about "How to build our community, so that our community become exist and faedah" hohohooo... Alhamdulillah, these people is so open minded and want to move forward. Eventhough Sanggau is a small city, at least we start something that can empowering the citizen in Sanggau.

Yes, one of our goal is being as useful as possible to society.

For example, our first event in Kartini's Day is to encourage women in hijab in Sanggau to be more syar'i when wearing hijab and how beautiful women in hijab is. We share our knowledge, and ofcourse gave them some tutorial hijab.

Not just that, another goal is to build an enterpreneur society, one of the way to do that is giving some training . It can increased their value of life. If only every single person in this city want to learn to be more valuable *in every aspect, enterpreneur or intrapreneur* insyaallah, this city,Sanggau, will be a better place to live.. #believe :)

And Insyaallah, Our next event is about healthiness.

Yes, we want to make a educative event which give bright knowledge about awareness "women healthiness". What's that about??? Just wait and join us next month!!!!

empowering,

mrs.deviyanuari

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Build My Life Here!!!

Rainy Afternoon in Sanggau..

Love this weather, moreover when I'm inside the room, so that I'll not getting wet.

Anyway, I want to share about advice that I've get from Mrs.Yuni, she is a wife from Iwa's boss in the office. She is nice and quite often play to my house..

Let me start...

Beliau menasihatkan padaku untuk membesarkan hati saat menemani suami yang ditempatkan di luar jawa, dalam hal ini Kalimantan Barat. Karena, sekali penempatan di Kalimantan Barat, akan butuh waktu yang sangat lama untuk akhirnya bisa dimutasi ke Jawa. Bu Yuni sendiri misalnya, sudah 10 tahun ini melalang buana di Kalimantan Barat. Ada juga ibu-ibu lainnya yang berbagi cerita kepadaku, sudah 4 tahun di Sanggau, 6 tahun, 8 tahun, dan belum tahu kapan akan di mutasi ke homebase. Sooooo,, nasehat baik dari Bu Yuni adalah, Build your life in here!!! Make a friend! and everything just gonna be fine.

Setelah merenungkan nasehat Bu Yuni, aku mulai berpikir untuk membangun semuanya kembali di Kalimantan Barat ini, terutama Sanggau. Dari Oktober sampai Februari kemarin, aku masih merasa bahwa aku hanya sementara disini. So, aku tidak merasa perlu untuk menjaring komunikasi, link, pertemanan dll. Kemarin aku merasa menjadi orang asing di kota ini. Kota yang begitu dingin tanpa kawan, tanpa kesibukanku yang biasanya. The city where "my life is not belong in here". Ragaku mungkin utuh disini, tapi jiwa dan hatiku tersimpan rapih di Surabaya, where I used to be. Kemarin aku masih merasa aku masih bagian dari setiap organisasi dan segala kesibukan yang aku tinggalkan. Kemarin aku masih berpikir, disini hanyalah tempatku untuk menikmati alam dan kesunyian. Kemarin aku masih berpikir bahwa disini aku tidak akan bisa menjadi aku yang sebelumnya, produktif, aktif, sibuk dan bermanfaat. 

Itu kemarin...

Sekarang, Bu Yuni membukakan kata-kataku. Aku akan berada disini dalam waktu yang cukup lama. Bisa, 5,6,7,8,9 bahkan 10 tahun seperti Bu Yuni. Dan aku masih 4 bulan disini... hahahahaaaa... seems so long, mengingat aku tidak mempunyai kehidupanku yang biasanya disini..

So, aku memutuskan untuk Membangun kehidupanku disini. Menjadi produktif, proaktif, just like I used to be. Insyaallah, statusku yang sudah menikah tidak menjadi halangan bagiku. Karena kalau aku yang punya perusahaan, aku akan lebih memilih tim ku yang sudah menikah dan memiliki kualitas super, daripada yang single tapi loyo.. hehe :p What I'm trying to say is Allah will give the best for me. As long as is good for me, Allah pasti akan memudahkan. Insyaallah.

Oya, aku juga sudah mulai (akan) ikut beberapa perkumpulan. So lucky I met Mrs.Mayar (She is a wife of Iwa's friend. And she is a teacher too) Dialah yang mengajakku ke beberapa perkumpulannya. Insyaallah positif.. :)

The rain has stop..

It's good. Cuz, after this the rainbow will a rise..

Allah please save me,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

Never Compare Your Life

Ini adalah pembelajaran hidup yang masih terus aku upgrade. NEVER COMPARE YOUR LIFE with other person, or you'll live with suffer. Ditambah dengan kemudahan kita melihat kehidupan orang lain melalui media sosial, kalau kita tidak bisa bijak menghadapinya, bisa-bisa kita malah merasa selalu kurang dibandingkan orang lain.

Semua orang memiliki jalan rejekinya sendiri. Entah itu rejeki jodoh, pekerjaan, studi, dll. Dan semua orang tidak harus melewati jalan yang dilewati oleh orag lain untuk menjadi sukses dalam hidupnya. Orang bisa sukses karena sekolah tinggi, in the other hand, banyak juga orang yang bukan sarjana dapat lebih sukses bahkan meng-hire mereka-mereka yang sarjana. So, semua hal adalah mungkin selama kita tidak pernah berhenti untuk selalu maju. Kalaupun sekarang kita belum mendapat rejeki ataupun kesempatan yang di dapat oleh orang lain, bukan berarti artinya selamanya kita menjadi orang gagal. Success is a journey yang mau g mau harus kita jalani. One by step, step by step. Anggaplah kita ini sedang menaiki tangga, satu per satu anak tangga kita naiki. Disetiap menaiki tangga itu, akan ada saja batu sandungan, yang fungsinya untuk semakin menguatkan kaki kita dalam berpijak. Agar nanti saat sudah di ujung tangga teratas, kita tidak mudah terkoyak oleh angin yang begitu kencang menerjang. Kalau terlalu cepat kita berada di posisi teratas tanpa ada proses yag cukup untuk menguatkan kaki kita, bisa-bisa dengan mudah juga kita akan terjungkal, karena di atas itu angin nya kencan saudara-saudara.. 

Dan jangan terlalu cepat silau dengan apa yang dimiliki oleh orang lain. Takutnya, kita jadi lupa bersyukur atas apa yang sudah kita miliki sekarang. 

Setiap manusia mempunyai masalah. Dan setiap orang berjuang demi apa yang ingin dimilikinya. So, if somebody in your neighborhood got something, just remember, that's the price for what their work for. Karena kita jarang melihat bagaimana banting tulangnya mereka, betapa hebatnya mereka dalam beribadah. Yang kita lihat hanyalah hasil akhirnya yang tampak dipelupuk mata. It's better to mind our own business, our own life, and always do something to increasing your quality of life.

Everything is gonna be okay, if it is not okay, it must be not the end.

Another thought about Sanggau

Kemarin aku dan Iwa makan siang di salah satu restoran di Sanggau. Tepat di pinggir sungai. I just forgot that place's name. The view is fine and the food is almost good too. Bangunannya dibuat ala gubuk-gubuk yang berjejer di pinggir sungai kapuas. Pemandangannya adalah sungai kapuas itu sendiri, boat ataupun perahu yang hilir mudik dan jembatan di atas sungai. Tapi, 1 hal yang sering aku temui di Sanggau adalah masalah pelayanan.For me, in business (or every profession you are) good service is NUMBER ONE!
*Aku sempat beberapa kali perhatikan, kualitas pelayanan disini adalah nomer kesekian. Malah tidak jarang melayani tapi dengan muka seperti "gak butuh". Apa mungkin karena persaingannya juga belum seketat di Jawa ya? #wondering
In the other side, masih ada kok tempat-tempat disini yang pelayanannya bagus :) . Walaupun itu hanya warung kecil. These people really know how important their custmore are.

Lanjuuutt....
Saat aku pertama datang ke restoran yang sudah dibangun apik di pinggir sungai ini, I have a high expectation. Tapi, setelah aku memilih-milih tempat untuk duduk (lesehan), ekspektasiku langsung terjun bebas. Hampir semua tempat kotor dan tidak terawat. Bahkan ada beberapa tempat yang belum di bereskan, jadi masih banyak piring dan gelas kotor di atasnya. Hiks T-T

Ini sayaaaaaang sekaliiiiii... Tempat sebagus itu tidak di maintenance dengan baik. Selain itu, pelayannya juga tidak ada senyumnya sama sekali. Oh God. Just remember this, when your work is to serve your customer, the important thing is never forget to put a smile in your face. Eventhough you have a bad day. It's called professionalism.

Tapi, yang lebih sedih lagi, saat aku bilang tentang pentingnya pelayanan ke Iwa, he just said "Yah..namanya juga Sanggau, hun". Oke, this sentence explain many things. But, I just believe that everything can change.Yah, semacem jadi agen perubahan dari diri sendiri gitu. I said to him, even if everybody in this environment do that, you dont have to do that too. Apalagi Iwa dulu juga ada di bagian pelayanan. You must be loyal to your profession, wherever this country sent you. Even in the hardest road.. *lgsg istighfar*

MAINTENANCE your assets dan profesionalisme dalam melayani itu penting. Di jaman globalisasi sekarang ini, good performance, good serving, itu sudah g bisa di tawar lagi. Wajib lhah hukumnya..

Kalau mau ditarik lebih jauh, bahkan perusahaan-perusahaan besar sekarang, rela mengeluarkan dana cukup besar untuk mentraining karyawannya dalam upaya peningkatan pelayanan. Dan Dirjen Pajak juga melakukan ini. Iwa pernah diikutkan salah satu pelatihannya. Hal ini harus ditiru oleh instansi-instasi pemerintah lainnya. Karena, good service tidak hanya berlaku untuk sektor swasta, tapi juga sektor publik. Urgenitas inilah yang harus di sadari

Sebagai contoh bentuk pelayanan adalah keep smiling eventhough your day feel so hard. Kalau kita perhatian, sudah begitu banyak perusahaan (terutama swasta) yang mengimplementasikannya. Misal, Pizza Hut selalu memuji setiap pilihan menu yang dipilih oleh customernya dengan kata-kata "Pilihan yang Tepat", lengkap dengan senyum lebar dan jempol yang teracung. Bentuk pelayanan seperti ini pasti sudah ada SOP nya. Kalau kita masuk ke alfamart ataupun indomart, seua karyawan disana berteriak "selamat datang!", hahaha :)). Di KFC, jika kasir melayani kita tanpa senyuman, kita tidak harus membayar semua pesanan yang telah kita pesan dan masih banyak contoh lainnya.
Ini membuktikan bahwa, mereka yang concern terhadap kepuasan customer, adalah mereka yang sudah menyadari how important their customer is for their company.

With love,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

@deviyanuari

Jalan menuju Sanggau, haduh!

This beautiful morning I want to write my opinion about Sanggau, terutama tentang akses jalannya.

Well, the first time I touched down in Sanggau I feel so faaarrrr away from my house.

 The road are rocky. What I'm trying to say is, jalannya rusaknya naudzubillah. How come this people in here never protest to any goverment in here??? Misalnya kepada Bupati yang sedang menjabat atau kepada wakil rakyat yang mengabdi disini.

 I ever asked to Iwa who is the regent in this city. Dan apakah di sini ada DPRD? Karena, keadaan jalan akses masuk Sanggau dari arah pontianak, dan keluar sanggau ke arah Sekadau sangatlah diluar kewajaran. Jalanan rusak parah. Lubang di tengah jalan sudah cocok digunakan untuk membiakkan lele. Begitu besar dan dalam. I mean, ini bukanlah "jalan" yang seharusnya. Mungkin tidak cocok jika disebut dengan  "jalan".

Padahal, kalau aku perhatikan, jalanan ini sangatlah aktif dilewati berbagai kendaraan bermotor. Dai roda 2 sampai roda 4. Dari mobil kecil sampai besar, seperti truk dan bis. Artinya, jalanan ini begitu penting bagi kehidupan masyarakat Kalimantan Barat, terutama untuk berkunjung dari satu kota ke kota lainnya.

Ini menyedihkan. Aku sempat bertanya kepada Iwa, dimanakah kantor DPRD Sanggau. I want to write something about this to them. Gak mungkinlah kalau mereka tidak tahu. Karena ini adalah satu-satunya akses masuk maupun keluar Sanggau. Come on!!! Do something!!! Kalian adalah para pembuat keputusan kan??

I wonder, apakah pendapatan pajak daerah Sanggau ini begitu kecil sampai tidak bisa memperbaiki jalan? If that so, apakah tidak ada jalan lain untuk mengusahakan perbaikan jalan? Such as Giving any proposal to any factory in this city? Aku dengar disini banyak perusahaan kelapa sawit kan? Atau perusahaan di bidang lainnya. Yah.. for their Corporate Social Responbility, they can use this project to take a part. Gak harus 1 perusahaan aja yang membetulkan jalan, bisa dengan bekerja sama, beberapa perusahaan memberi andil dalam perbaikan jalan, misalnya. CSR tidak hanya tentang kegiatan sosial kan, tapi juga tentang lingkungan sekitar. Dan jalanan di Sanggau ini benar-benar perlu di perbaiki. 

I realize that, untuk memperbaiki sebuah jalan bisa mengeluarkan uang yang begitu banyak, menyentuh Milyaran. Tapi, bukankah kita membayar pajak untuk membangun negeri ini?? Dan Sanggau adalah bagian dari negeri ini. Dan sekarang adalah saat yang tepat untuk melihat pajak yang telah dibayarkan oleh wajib pajak ini, "menyentuh" Sanggau. Kan Indonesia tidak hanya Jawa... -____-"

Disini aku melihat kelemahan berada jauh dari pusat pemerintahan. Kurang dapat perhatian. Masalah jalanan yang luar biasa mengkhwatirkan ini saja, sepertinya sudah bertahun-tahun tidak tersentuh pemerintah pusat. Sekarang aku benar-benar merasakan "Perkembangan Perekonomian yang Tidak Merata" hanya dari kasus "Jalanan Rusak". And if you asked me, I can explain apa saja hal yang masih banyak tertinggal disini. Perekenomian yang tidak merata merupakan salah satu penyebabnya.

Oke, kembali ke permasalahan "Jalanan Rusak".

Aku sampai sekarang masih berpikir bahwa teman-teman Kalimantan Barat ini sabar-sabar orangnya. Bagaimana tidak? Jalanan darat sebagai akses satu-satunya dari satu kota ke kota lain "Rusaknya Naudzubillah" ini, tidak membuat mereka memprotes pemerintah yang berwenang. Tidak pernah aku dengar ada demo tentang perbaikan jalan disini. Mereka terima saja dengan keadaan jalan ini. Ya aku tidak menyarankan untuk demo, karena demo bukan satu-satunya jalan keluar, hanya saja, orang sini sabar-sabar. "Nerimoan", kalo orang Jawa bilang. Padahal, banyak sekali kerugian yang ditimbulkan dari rusaknya sebuah jalan, apalagi panjangnya jalanan yang rusak adalah sepanjang (kurang lebih) 3 jam perjalanan *berarti melewati beberapa kabupaten/kota* . Can you imagine?!?!? Selama kurang lebih 3 jam kamu harus terhoyak-hoyak di atas jalan yang rusak. If you can't imagine that, aku maklum. Pasti susah membayangkan sesuatu yang tidak pernah kamu rasakan, kecuali kamu pernah merasakannya sendiri T-T . Karena selama aku di Surabaya, tidak pernah aku melewati jalanan lurus yang kerusakannya harus dilewati selama 3 jam. 

Salah satu kerugian yang aku rasakan langsung adalah Waktu dan tenaga. Lama perjalanan Sanggau-Pontianak normalnya adalah 3-4 jam (sudah termasuk berhenti untuk istirahat). Karena jalan rusak, lama perjalanan yang dibutuhkan menjadi 6-8 jam. Dan sekitar 3 jam di antaranya adalah melewati jalanan yang rusak. Terombang-ombing di jalan yang harusnya mulus. Dan dalam jangka waktu yang begitu lama di dalam mobil dengan keadaan jalan yang rusak, membuat badan ini rasanya mau rontok. Aku apresiasi semua sopir travel lintas Kalimantan Barat, stamina mereka luar biasa. *tepuk tangan*

For conclusion, I dont know who is the one atau instansi apa yang seharusnya mengurusi tentang jalan (entah itu pemerintah pusat maupun pemerintah daerah), yang jelas, minim, akses jalan keluar masuk Sanggau ini KUDU segera diperbaiki. This is important. Karena akses transportasi yang baik adalah salah satu faktor pendorong dalam peningkatan kualitas perekonomian  dan kualitas hidup bagi masyarakat di sebuah kota. So, this is so URGENT. Siapapun yang berwenang,  prioritas utama adalah kepentingan masyarakat Indonesia (Sanggau adalah bagian dari Indonesia). Again, Just do something about this.. 

With love,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

@deviyanuari

Laughing in every single day

The most wasted of all days is one without laugh. Laugh can heal any insecurity, inferior feeling, loneliness and sadness. Laugh can through the biggest problem in our life.

Nowaday, people like forget about the art of laughing. About the important of laughing. If you dont realize, I'll tell you that laughing is the cheapest way to be happy. You have not to spend much money to laugh. Just laugh. Laugh at everthing. About your little mistakes. About your acne in your face. About your broken nail. Oh yes, there is always something to laughing at even in the worst situation. There is always a funny side in everything.

Laugh can make your shoulder lighter. Laugh can also make your heart calming down. So that you can think clearly than before. Take a deep breath. Just remember everything or anyone that can make you laugh, and you can solve every problem infront of your nose wisely..

Love to laugh,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

@deviyanuari

One day you'll meet this guy

One day you'll meet a guy, who really believe that you are the prettiest woman in this earth, even he already saw your ugliest moment.

One day you'll meet a guy, who can do anything for you, even you never asked.

One day you'll meet a guy, who is going to know EVERYTHING about you, and you know what? He is still going to love you anyway.

One day you'll meet a guy, who patiently hear your story, eventhough you have told that story a hundred times, and guess what? He is still excited like the first time he heard that story from you.

One day you'll meet a guy, who can hold your hand, hug you tight, and talk to you in the eyes "everything is gonna be okay, you'll just be fine"

One day you'll meet a guy, who will never give up on you easily and will fight for you.

And "One day" is not that long.

So, just prepare yourself. So that on that time you are become the woman who deserve this guy.

Care about you,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari

Marriage Box

I've ever read about this "Marriage Box" things. And I re-read again and again and agai and again.. Until I really understand instead just know.

In this moment, I'll try to re-write what I read, so you can read it and understand it like i did before.

This is it...

"Most people get married believing a myth that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for : companionship, intimacy, friendship, etc. The truth is that marriage at the start is an empty box. You must put something in before you can take something out. There is no love in marriage. Love is in PEOPLE. And People put love in marriage. There is no romance in marriage. You have to infuse it into marriage. A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving serving, praising, keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty"

Just re-read this statement, and understand it. That's the marriage means.

What colors of your box is according to two people in marriage live.

What kind of things in that box is according to TWO PEOPLE in marriage live.

with love,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari

Nasehat dari Alumnus Unair

Before graduation day, ada acara khusus untuk wisudawan. Yang jadi pembicara utama adalah beliau yang sudah sukses lebih dulu dalam karirnya, dan tentu saja dia adalah lulusan UNAIR. I don't know how old he is now, seems young kok. Mungkin masih kepala 4 lah.. And he told us, kalo dia sudah menduduki posisi CEO di Bank Exim saat berumur 39 tahun. Yang notabene saat itu, kebanyakan berusia 45 ke atas yang berada di posisi puncak. So, What he want to tell is, He was amazing. hohoho..

Nasehat beliau yang aku ingat adalah :

1. You can choose either being an intrapreneur - like him, or being an enterpreneur.

2. Because he is an intrapreneur, so he gave us an advice to be "performed" in every single level of our carrier. 

3. Untuk Fresh Graduate, jangan bingung gaji dulu, insyaallah kalo di awal mah semua gaji standard, disesuaikan dengan jenjang pendidikan. Yang membedakan adalah cepat atau lambatnya kamu berkembang dan berprestasi dibidang yang kamu geluti di perusahaan itu. If you fast and "performed", your company will give you a reward as much as possible. 

4. Upayakan untuk konsisten dengan pilihan bidang pekerjaan. Sehingga, kamu bisa ekspert dibidang tersebut.

5. Be LOYAL to your profession. kata-kata ini mencangkup banyak makna lho, dari integritas sampai kualitas.

Kurang lebih, itulah yang dinasehatkan oleh Pak Dwi ini. Good advice. Oya, one more thing, he said that "Be Success as young as possible" ^.^

With Love,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

@deviyanuari

He is a Good Listener

This morning, I told him about how lucky I am to have him. One of the best thing that he have is, he is a GOOD LISTENER. I'm a woman who love to out loud the things inside my head. And he love to hear. SO much thing I can talk to him. From a little thing which is not that important to tell about, until the biggest thing of my life. Because of his kindness to hear whatever I want to talk without any filtering, I satisfied and there are no more words can I share to anyone else but the important one.

I can tell him about whats going on in my head and my heart.

I can tell him about my opinion. My opinion about the air, the sun, the sky, the weather, the bugs, the color of my hair, the color of my dress, about my acne, about my blackheads, about my nails, about my teeth, I can tell about everything.

I can tell him about my opinion. My opinion about the movie we've watch, about the infotainment in television, about politics, about religion, about the people I love, about the people I care, about the people I hate, about everything.

Yes, everything means everything.

And if something bother my head until I cannot sleep, He can stand to not sleep to accompany me, to hear my anxiousness.

And if someone tell me about their secret and I promise them to not telling anyone in this earth, it's exclude Iwa. Iwa knows everything that I know. And surely that people who tells their secret to me, know that fact, and they understand. :)

At the same time, Iwa can tell everything to me.

About his sadness if Juventus failed the game.

About his new strategy to play ping pong.

About his happiness when playing futsal.

He tell me about whats going on in his office, his friends, his mind.

He tell me about what bother him.

He tell me about makes him happy and sad.

He tell me about everything.

Yes, he talk that much when with me.

Because of this habbit, automatically we learned about how to tell something with a good way.

We can make a differentiation between being honest with being rude.

And this habbit is established from our relationship in high school.

We believe about the power of words. And we prefer to raise our words than our voice. 

Because, Its is rain that grows flowers, not thunder.

With love,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

@deviyanuari

In the Middle of the night

Waking up in the middle of the night with no reason. Shifting under the blankets and feeling the heat of the person next to me - Iwa. I turn around and see him in his most peaceful and innocent state. He's breathe as though the weight of the world lays on anyone's shoulder but his own. I stare at him, looking at him, pretty long time.. hahahaa.. Identify his eyebrow which very beautiful, not like mine -____-". Looking his lips which like a shape of heart (even I always said to him that his lips is like a boo.. hahahhaaa.. :)) ). Then I kiss him, in his adorable cheek in the most gentle manner so as not wake him. I turn back around. After that, I feel arm wrap around my waist and I realize it doesn't get any better than this. 

Oooh yes, I love him that much.

Pictures - Our Prewed at our Highschool

This is the place when I said "YES" for his proposal to be his girlfriend

My Favorite pict!!!

Hugging - The activity that I love the MOST

Hugging - The activity that I love the MOST.

If someone you love sad, You hug them.

If someone you love happy, You hug them.

If you can't say a word, You just need to hug.

If you need to release your sadness, Just Hug.

Hugging can transfer positive energy.

Hugging can encourages your mood.

Hugging can make your heart comfy and warm.

Hugging can destroy the cold wall in your heart.

If you are feel so free till you can crying when you are hugging, that's oke.

Crying is not mean you are weak. infact, from baby born, crying means we are life and breath.

So, when I lost myself in the huge problem that I through, I need a honest hug to make me calm.

Love to hug,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

@deviyanuari

Choices are fully yours

When I'm in Surabaya, I met with one of my close friend. He told me about his life. And I told him about mine. He said that his life is according to his mother. Every single choices are choosen by his mother. hmmm.. this is my advice to him.. "They might try to tell you how you can live your life, but dont forget it's your right to do whatever you like.."

Your life is your own responsibility. You are the one who will get the concequences of your choices. You can't blame anyone but you. Moreover, if you are big enough to be independent.

I told him that so many advice around me. But, which way I'll take is absolutely mine.

I won't live in another person's expectations. Because, it's never be enough.

I'll live in my fully life.

If I wrong, it's because I've take my foot one step ahead. I'll learn from it and make it my precious experiences.

If I right, so that I'm in the right track.

As long as my choices not got lost from Allah, everything is just gonna be okay.

If he know, in the long long time ago, people brave to die to fight their right to choose, to be independent. That people prefer to die independent that to live in sorrow.

The power of choosing our own way of life is our privillege. Use it! You just live once.

Our parents just want us to be happy, save and success. Give them a prove that you can do that better in your own way. Insyallah your parents will understand if you can show them that you have a capability to arrange your own life.

Never be afraid to fall apart because it is an opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you had been all along.

With care,

mrs.deviyanuari

@deviyanuari

Friendship as always

I called this relationship is friendship. I really enjoy every moment when with them. Because, I never need to pretend to be someone I'm not. I just go back to set by default.. hahahaaa..

I love people who make me laugh. I honesty think, it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It's cures of multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in person. And they absolutely can make me laugh. Even when we were not joking. hahahaaaa :)) 

#Friendship #Loving #Caring #Hugging

Note :
Promise me, You won't forget our laughs, our jokes, our smiles, our conversations, our plans, our tears, our memories, our experiences, our friendship.

Now, we are fighting for our live. We have this friendship from highschool ---> Then, we have graduated from university.
Now, we have to fight alone in our own way. But still pray for each other. Wish us luck. Wish we can rock the world and be as success as we always dream.  May Allah always with us and save us.
Insyaallah :)
Even we can't hang out as much as usual, we can still take a communication for many ways, for example : bbm group.. hahaha :))



Loving you guys,
Mrs.Devi Yanuari
@deviyanuari

Before You Speak, read this!

I love to talk. I talk about everything. About my life, my knowledge, what I'm feel, what I see, what I hear, or I can say, EVERYTHING. I just like an open book, which everybody can read. There is no secret. There is no mistery. If you ask, I answer. Even you didn't ask, I'll explain. In one side, this is good. Cuz, theory said that I'm a Sanguin. Tipe orang yang terbuka. So many positive thing for being a Sanguin. BUT, there is always a bad side of everything. 

And  now, I want to write about the bad side being Sanguin. 

Simple. The bad side is, sometimes Sanguin just too much talking, then talk about everything without any filter. This is really bad..bad..bad.. Because you (and I) can hurt people with our (my) words. So, this is my advice to everyone who always talk about everything (sometimes) without thinking (of another heart)

Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates (this is GOOD Theory, and I'm still i process to implement it to my daily activites) :

• At the first gate, ask your self "is it TRUE?"
• At the second gate, ask your self "Is it NECESSARY?" *this is can also mean "Is it your business???"
• At the third gate, ask your self "Is it KIND?"

This "KIND" thing is for everyone ya.. Not just according to you. Trust me, I have through this. cuz sometimes, When you just hear your voices without second opinion, you'll screw up. Ask an advice from someone who have more experience than you is important.

Always remember that, words which out of your mouth can't be erased.

with love,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari

strong mind should "accompany with" strong quality

Sometimes I can be so self-fish and so confident about myself. Because, in my opinion, in some circumtances we have to be self-fish both confident. Nowaday, self-fish not always bad and being too kind is not always good. Moreover, be confident is not always bad and be low profile is not always good. Someone in some where is dont know your quality if you're not showing in. Not show off lho ya, but stand up in the crowd. Its's different. Just be wise.

You can say in your mind :

I might not be someone's first choice, but I'm a great choice. 

I may not be rich but I'm valuable.

I don't pretend to be someone that I'm not, because I'm good at being me.

Take me as I'm or watch me as I walk away.

Seems over-confident yah?

hahahaaaa..

But I prefer to have the strong mind like this to face the world which full of challenge..

And for reminder, strong mind should "accompany with" strong quality,and vice versa .

"Strong Mind" like that must proven, right? So you're not just a big mouth with an empty brain.

 If you have a quality and love to always increasing what you had, just be stand out..

With love,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari

My Graduation Day

This is my Second Graduation's Ceremony. Before this ceremonial, in 2010 I had once, graduated from Diploma 3 Airlangga University. Then, here I am, 2 years later, graduated from Unair for Bachelor Degree of Accounting. Now, I have a title in my last name,

 Devi Yanuari, S.Ak. 

This Graduation Ceremonial is better than my last one. Because the comittee of this ceremonial is more professional than my last graduation. I have to aprreciated the comittee of Unair's Graduation this year. Congratulation guys!!! You all rocks!

And the other thing which made me quite satisfied is... I graduated with Cumlaude and Airlangga University gave me a certificate for that. This is an increasing "touch" for me, hahahaaa... because when I'm in diploma, I failed to got Cumlaude. Jadi, aku menepati janji ku kepada kedua orang tuaku untuk lulus dengan predikat Cumlaude di S1. Alhamdulillah :)

For your information, I have graduated at September, 12nd 2012, last year. But, because of I have to go to Sanggau, West Borneo, immediately - to accompany my husband - I can't join the graduation's ceremonial last year. So, Here I am, at March 26nd 2013, join the graduation's ceremonial with a biggest smile in my face. Let me share my moment which captured in camera... here they are.. :

This is me before the ceremonial started

Take a pict with my parents

My Father, Me, My Sister, Aqilla and My Mother
(Aqilla is my little niece.. And she is adorable!)

Both of them are my Mother. And I love them so :)

Mama Cu and Me

 Just like my last graduation, make up and hijab is absolutely by myself. Hohohoooo.. I just want come to my graduation day with pretty and clean look, and ofcourse as simple as I can. Pretty gorgeous, right? hahahahaaaa... :))

And these are my pictures with my friends inside the hall :

After graduation day, at 7 pm we went to Malioboro Restaurant (Ayam Tulang Lunak). Good place, delicious food with people that I love... perfect! :)

Abang Irfan, Me, Aqilla and Mama cu

Mbak Via, Aqilla, My Father, My Mother, Me, Abang Irfan and Mama Cu
Place : Malioboro Restaurant, Kutai Street, Second Floor, Outdoor. Nice View.

Sooooo... now... is the real life...

After I finished my study at university, now I have to find my own way to success

So, please, pray for me yah!! Pray for the best!!

semangat!!!

with love,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari

Review - Olympus Has Fallen

I watched this movie with my husband @XXI Mega Mall Pontianak, March, 31nd 2013. I can say that this movie is sooo RECOMMENDED. Film bergenre Action ini begitu pintar mengemas sisi sentimentil  di dalamnya.

"Olympus Has Fallen", sesuai dengan judulnya, film ini menggambarkan Gedung Putih (di sebut dengan Olympus) yang berhasil di robohkan pertahanannya dengan begitu luar biasa oleh teroris Korea Utara hanya dalam waktu 13 menit.

Hahahaaa… Saat tahu musuh Amerika kali ini adalah Korea Utara, sontak aku dan suamiku tertawa bersama. This is new. Yah, memang sih sudah cukup lama Amerika membantu Korea Selatan dalam menghadapi Korea Utara. Tapi, kalau di perhatikan, selama ini musuh Amerika itu kalo ga Rusia ya Bangsa Arab. So, this is the new enemy. Menarik. Karena, kalau dihubungkan dengan dunia nyata saat ini, Amerika memang sedang bersitegang dengan Korea Utara. Bahkan, Korea Utara sempat mengancam Amerika untuk meluncurkan nuklirnya.

Oke, Back to the movie…

Aku terbawa dalam alur film ini. Baik action, trik, dan drama yang mengalir bersamaan. Touchy sekaligus menegangkan. Menarik untuk terus di tonton. I really Love it!

Dari Ibu negara yang tewas sampai dengan Gedung Putih yang dilumpuhkan oleh Korea Utara beserta para pejabat pentingnya, termasuk Presiden. Hmmm.. Mau tahu bagaimana kisah lengkapnya?? TONTON SENDIRI!!! Enjoy!

*Di perankan sangat baik oleh Gerard Butler, Aaron Eckhart, Morgan Freeman

With Love,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

@deviyanuari

Tempat Istri adalah di Samping Suami

One thing I've recognized when I'm so far away from my husband in a pretty long time is EMPTYNESS MOMENT. Sepedalaman apapun Sanggau ini, tetap paling aman, nyaman dan bahagia saat aku bisa berada dekat suamiku. Gemerlapnya Surabaya dan betapa komplitnya segala fasilitas maupun tempat hiburan di Surabaya, ternyata tidak bisa menggantikan my trully happiness when my husband close to me. 

This is my new formula that I've found :

ME + My Husband = COMPLETE

ME - My Husband = EMPTY or NULL or { } or ERROR

This is true guys, I'm not joking..
Then I'm thinking about what God wants. You know, about why I'm here. why He's here.
So, I realized that we are where God wants we to be at this very moment.
Every exprience is part of his divine plan.
Maybe it's can explain why I'm so glad be here. beside my husband. In the middle of jungle.
Even a lot of my friends just didn't believe if I can survive without any glamorous thing in Surabaya, I BELIEVE. As long as God with me. And ofcourse as long as my husband beside me, everthing is possible.

This is called positive energy.

Sanggau memang tempatnya Galau, tapi kalau galau ya berdua sama suami, rasanya ga ada apa-apa nya. Tinggal bagaimana aku mencari kesibukan disini. Sekaligus untuk aktualisasi diri. Menjadi aku yang lebih berguna bagi orang banyak. Dan mencoba untuk mentransfer ilmu ku selama berkuliah di UNAIR dari Diploma sampai Sarjana dalam dunia kerja.

Ouuuyeeaaah, I want to get a job! Berkarier!! And ofcourse in Sanggau, the place where my husband exist. hohoho..

Sebenarnya sudah ada beberapa tawaran kerja saat aku di Surabaya, hanya saja, itu di Surabaya brooo.. Aku pertimbangkan dengan gaji yang di tawarkan, hmmmm.. I guess not.

Aku rasa aku bisa dapat dengan jumlah yang tidak jauh berbeda di sini, di Sanggau, di dekat suamiku :) Insyaallah ya :)

Fyi, aku sudah cetak banyak CV dan segala dokumen pendukungnya untuk melamar pekerjaan di Sanggau. Doakan saya ya!!! Bismillah.. Hap!Hap!Hap!!

Untuk perusahaan yang menerima aku mah, g bakal rugi! Udah kreatif, pinter, pekerja keras, loyal pula.. #tsaaaahh #promosi hahahaaaaa... :))

with super energy,
mrs.devi yanuari
@deviyanuari

Back To Sanggau

Hi there!! Here I am back to Sanggau…

1,5 Bulan aku di Surabaya, menyelesaikan segala urusan berkaitan dengan wisuda. Dan saat semua akhirnya selesai, aku kembali lagi ke Sanggau, di sisi suamiku.

Sudah lama sekali aku tidak membuka blog ku dan berbagi cerita. One of the reason is my netbook bought by my husband. And writing blog in my tablet is not enjoyable. Aura penulis dari diriku langsung hilang begitu saja. Hohohooo..

Padahal, begitu banyak yang aku dapat selama di Surabaya, entah itu pengalaman aktivitas ku selama disana sampai dengan pelajaran-pelajaran yang aku dapat. From laughing 'till crying and back to laughing again.. Yeaaahh.. It's called life, right??

I'm the woman who still in progress of actualization. Still searching about what the hell that makes me happy. And still figure out, What I really really want. I'm 24 years young (refuse to write "years OLD" hahahaaa..) and still encourage my knowledge about life, love and laugh. About partnership and friendshiutp. About friends, best friends and family. About How to achieving my dreams

My head always thinking about "What can I do for people who I love?" "rewWhat should I do to make them happy?" What ini dan What itu… What…What..What…

Have you ever stuck in the situation or moment when you have to be someone else? Because, when you totally become "you" the people on that situation will hurt?? Have you ever stuck on that situation? When someone else in your environment wish "something different" with what you really want?? Because, I had And that situation made me hardly to breath, nyeseeeeekk.. You want to talk but can't. You want to cry but your cry never fall out. You just want to be someone who can make that people happy, because you just too love that people. But , its just not enough. And unfortunately, you screw up!

When I'm in Surabaya, so many times I "waste" to think. Yeah, thinking about how the way I survive. How I still can be my own self without hurting people who I love. Even in the process I screw up (asyeeeemm) but, I still learning. Huft… If only……

In the Other Story,, kemaren aku seperjalanan sama Kasi Umum nya Iwa, Pak Hartawan. He's a nice person. Low Profil. Dan suka ngobrol, which is good. Aku suka di ajak berbincang, so I like this Man. One thing that made me surprise is he recognized me!!! hahahaa.. yes, he know me from my blog. He is a new man in KPP Pratama Sanggau - WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE SIR!! ^o^ . Saat SK beliau turun dan beliau tahu akan ditempatkan di Sanggau, beliau langsung searching di internet What Sanggau is. Then, taraaaa, he found my Blog. He said I have a nice blog. And he loves to read it. heheheee.. jadi maluuu #blushing. Fyi, I feel happy when I know my husband have a good and kind boss. Punya atasan yang baik itu sebuah anugrah lho. Sekaligus bisa untuk di contoh, supaya nanti suatu hari Iwa sudah jadi atasan, dia juga akan menjadi atasan yang baik.. Nice trip with a nice guy.. What a day!  :)

*Oya, untuk di garis bawahi dan di cetak tebal, jalanan di Sanggau MASIH rusak dan kerusakannya MASIH unlogic. Lampu MASIH jarang. And the important thing is aku MASIH betah dan bahagia as long as I'm in beside my husband. Period.

Oke, on my next blog I'll write something more interesting yah..

Tulisanku di atas itu hanya kata-kata yang terlalu lama riwa-riwi di kepalaku..

Next blog I'll write something which more faedah ya..

Anyway, the first time I got back to my house in Sanggau, I was Shocked!!!! Rumahku kayak kapal pecah.. T-T Oh, pelajarannya adalah jangan tinggalkan rumahmu sendirian dengan suamimu… T-T *cubit pipi suami*

With love,

Mrs.devi yanuari