When I'm in Surabaya, I met with one of my close friend. He told me about his life. And I told him about mine. He said that his life is according to his mother. Every single choices are choosen by his mother. hmmm.. this is my advice to him.. "They might try to tell you how you can live your life, but dont forget it's your right to do whatever you like.."
Your life is your own responsibility. You are the one who will get the concequences of your choices. You can't blame anyone but you. Moreover, if you are big enough to be independent.
I told him that so many advice around me. But, which way I'll take is absolutely mine.
I won't live in another person's expectations. Because, it's never be enough.
I'll live in my fully life.
If I wrong, it's because I've take my foot one step ahead. I'll learn from it and make it my precious experiences.
If I right, so that I'm in the right track.
As long as my choices not got lost from Allah, everything is just gonna be okay.
If he know, in the long long time ago, people brave to die to fight their right to choose, to be independent. That people prefer to die independent that to live in sorrow.
The power of choosing our own way of life is our privillege. Use it! You just live once.
Our parents just want us to be happy, save and success. Give them a prove that you can do that better in your own way. Insyallah your parents will understand if you can show them that you have a capability to arrange your own life.
Never be afraid to fall apart because it is an opportunity to rebuild yourself the way you wish you had been all along.
With care,
mrs.deviyanuari
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