I've ever read about this "Marriage Box" things. And I re-read again and again and agai and again.. Until I really understand instead just know.
In this moment, I'll try to re-write what I read, so you can read it and understand it like i did before.
This is it...
"Most people get married believing a myth that marriage is a beautiful box full of all the things they have longed for : companionship, intimacy, friendship, etc. The truth is that marriage at the start is an empty box. You must put something in before you can take something out. There is no love in marriage. Love is in PEOPLE. And People put love in marriage. There is no romance in marriage. You have to infuse it into marriage. A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving serving, praising, keeping the box full. If you take out more than you put in, the box will be empty"
Just re-read this statement, and understand it. That's the marriage means.
What colors of your box is according to two people in marriage live.
What kind of things in that box is according to TWO PEOPLE in marriage live.
with love,
mrs.devi yanuari
@deviyanuari
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