Before You Speak, read this!

I love to talk. I talk about everything. About my life, my knowledge, what I'm feel, what I see, what I hear, or I can say, EVERYTHING. I just like an open book, which everybody can read. There is no secret. There is no mistery. If you ask, I answer. Even you didn't ask, I'll explain. In one side, this is good. Cuz, theory said that I'm a Sanguin. Tipe orang yang terbuka. So many positive thing for being a Sanguin. BUT, there is always a bad side of everything. 

And  now, I want to write about the bad side being Sanguin. 

Simple. The bad side is, sometimes Sanguin just too much talking, then talk about everything without any filter. This is really bad..bad..bad.. Because you (and I) can hurt people with our (my) words. So, this is my advice to everyone who always talk about everything (sometimes) without thinking (of another heart)

Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates (this is GOOD Theory, and I'm still i process to implement it to my daily activites) :

• At the first gate, ask your self "is it TRUE?"
• At the second gate, ask your self "Is it NECESSARY?" *this is can also mean "Is it your business???"
• At the third gate, ask your self "Is it KIND?"

This "KIND" thing is for everyone ya.. Not just according to you. Trust me, I have through this. cuz sometimes, When you just hear your voices without second opinion, you'll screw up. Ask an advice from someone who have more experience than you is important.

Always remember that, words which out of your mouth can't be erased.

with love,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari