Friendship as always

I called this relationship is friendship. I really enjoy every moment when with them. Because, I never need to pretend to be someone I'm not. I just go back to set by default.. hahahaaa..

I love people who make me laugh. I honesty think, it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It's cures of multitude of ills. It's probably the most important thing in person. And they absolutely can make me laugh. Even when we were not joking. hahahaaaa :)) 

#Friendship #Loving #Caring #Hugging

Note :
Promise me, You won't forget our laughs, our jokes, our smiles, our conversations, our plans, our tears, our memories, our experiences, our friendship.

Now, we are fighting for our live. We have this friendship from highschool ---> Then, we have graduated from university.
Now, we have to fight alone in our own way. But still pray for each other. Wish us luck. Wish we can rock the world and be as success as we always dream.  May Allah always with us and save us.
Insyaallah :)
Even we can't hang out as much as usual, we can still take a communication for many ways, for example : bbm group.. hahaha :))



Loving you guys,
Mrs.Devi Yanuari
@deviyanuari

Before You Speak, read this!

I love to talk. I talk about everything. About my life, my knowledge, what I'm feel, what I see, what I hear, or I can say, EVERYTHING. I just like an open book, which everybody can read. There is no secret. There is no mistery. If you ask, I answer. Even you didn't ask, I'll explain. In one side, this is good. Cuz, theory said that I'm a Sanguin. Tipe orang yang terbuka. So many positive thing for being a Sanguin. BUT, there is always a bad side of everything. 

And  now, I want to write about the bad side being Sanguin. 

Simple. The bad side is, sometimes Sanguin just too much talking, then talk about everything without any filter. This is really bad..bad..bad.. Because you (and I) can hurt people with our (my) words. So, this is my advice to everyone who always talk about everything (sometimes) without thinking (of another heart)

Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates (this is GOOD Theory, and I'm still i process to implement it to my daily activites) :

• At the first gate, ask your self "is it TRUE?"
• At the second gate, ask your self "Is it NECESSARY?" *this is can also mean "Is it your business???"
• At the third gate, ask your self "Is it KIND?"

This "KIND" thing is for everyone ya.. Not just according to you. Trust me, I have through this. cuz sometimes, When you just hear your voices without second opinion, you'll screw up. Ask an advice from someone who have more experience than you is important.

Always remember that, words which out of your mouth can't be erased.

with love,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari

strong mind should "accompany with" strong quality

Sometimes I can be so self-fish and so confident about myself. Because, in my opinion, in some circumtances we have to be self-fish both confident. Nowaday, self-fish not always bad and being too kind is not always good. Moreover, be confident is not always bad and be low profile is not always good. Someone in some where is dont know your quality if you're not showing in. Not show off lho ya, but stand up in the crowd. Its's different. Just be wise.

You can say in your mind :

I might not be someone's first choice, but I'm a great choice. 

I may not be rich but I'm valuable.

I don't pretend to be someone that I'm not, because I'm good at being me.

Take me as I'm or watch me as I walk away.

Seems over-confident yah?

hahahaaaa..

But I prefer to have the strong mind like this to face the world which full of challenge..

And for reminder, strong mind should "accompany with" strong quality,and vice versa .

"Strong Mind" like that must proven, right? So you're not just a big mouth with an empty brain.

 If you have a quality and love to always increasing what you had, just be stand out..

With love,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari

My Graduation Day

This is my Second Graduation's Ceremony. Before this ceremonial, in 2010 I had once, graduated from Diploma 3 Airlangga University. Then, here I am, 2 years later, graduated from Unair for Bachelor Degree of Accounting. Now, I have a title in my last name,

 Devi Yanuari, S.Ak. 

This Graduation Ceremonial is better than my last one. Because the comittee of this ceremonial is more professional than my last graduation. I have to aprreciated the comittee of Unair's Graduation this year. Congratulation guys!!! You all rocks!

And the other thing which made me quite satisfied is... I graduated with Cumlaude and Airlangga University gave me a certificate for that. This is an increasing "touch" for me, hahahaaa... because when I'm in diploma, I failed to got Cumlaude. Jadi, aku menepati janji ku kepada kedua orang tuaku untuk lulus dengan predikat Cumlaude di S1. Alhamdulillah :)

For your information, I have graduated at September, 12nd 2012, last year. But, because of I have to go to Sanggau, West Borneo, immediately - to accompany my husband - I can't join the graduation's ceremonial last year. So, Here I am, at March 26nd 2013, join the graduation's ceremonial with a biggest smile in my face. Let me share my moment which captured in camera... here they are.. :

This is me before the ceremonial started

Take a pict with my parents

My Father, Me, My Sister, Aqilla and My Mother
(Aqilla is my little niece.. And she is adorable!)

Both of them are my Mother. And I love them so :)

Mama Cu and Me

 Just like my last graduation, make up and hijab is absolutely by myself. Hohohoooo.. I just want come to my graduation day with pretty and clean look, and ofcourse as simple as I can. Pretty gorgeous, right? hahahahaaaa... :))

And these are my pictures with my friends inside the hall :

After graduation day, at 7 pm we went to Malioboro Restaurant (Ayam Tulang Lunak). Good place, delicious food with people that I love... perfect! :)

Abang Irfan, Me, Aqilla and Mama cu

Mbak Via, Aqilla, My Father, My Mother, Me, Abang Irfan and Mama Cu
Place : Malioboro Restaurant, Kutai Street, Second Floor, Outdoor. Nice View.

Sooooo... now... is the real life...

After I finished my study at university, now I have to find my own way to success

So, please, pray for me yah!! Pray for the best!!

semangat!!!

with love,

mrs.devi yanuari

@deviyanuari

Review - Olympus Has Fallen

I watched this movie with my husband @XXI Mega Mall Pontianak, March, 31nd 2013. I can say that this movie is sooo RECOMMENDED. Film bergenre Action ini begitu pintar mengemas sisi sentimentil  di dalamnya.

"Olympus Has Fallen", sesuai dengan judulnya, film ini menggambarkan Gedung Putih (di sebut dengan Olympus) yang berhasil di robohkan pertahanannya dengan begitu luar biasa oleh teroris Korea Utara hanya dalam waktu 13 menit.

Hahahaaa… Saat tahu musuh Amerika kali ini adalah Korea Utara, sontak aku dan suamiku tertawa bersama. This is new. Yah, memang sih sudah cukup lama Amerika membantu Korea Selatan dalam menghadapi Korea Utara. Tapi, kalau di perhatikan, selama ini musuh Amerika itu kalo ga Rusia ya Bangsa Arab. So, this is the new enemy. Menarik. Karena, kalau dihubungkan dengan dunia nyata saat ini, Amerika memang sedang bersitegang dengan Korea Utara. Bahkan, Korea Utara sempat mengancam Amerika untuk meluncurkan nuklirnya.

Oke, Back to the movie…

Aku terbawa dalam alur film ini. Baik action, trik, dan drama yang mengalir bersamaan. Touchy sekaligus menegangkan. Menarik untuk terus di tonton. I really Love it!

Dari Ibu negara yang tewas sampai dengan Gedung Putih yang dilumpuhkan oleh Korea Utara beserta para pejabat pentingnya, termasuk Presiden. Hmmm.. Mau tahu bagaimana kisah lengkapnya?? TONTON SENDIRI!!! Enjoy!

*Di perankan sangat baik oleh Gerard Butler, Aaron Eckhart, Morgan Freeman

With Love,

Mrs.Devi Yanuari

@deviyanuari

Tempat Istri adalah di Samping Suami

One thing I've recognized when I'm so far away from my husband in a pretty long time is EMPTYNESS MOMENT. Sepedalaman apapun Sanggau ini, tetap paling aman, nyaman dan bahagia saat aku bisa berada dekat suamiku. Gemerlapnya Surabaya dan betapa komplitnya segala fasilitas maupun tempat hiburan di Surabaya, ternyata tidak bisa menggantikan my trully happiness when my husband close to me. 

This is my new formula that I've found :

ME + My Husband = COMPLETE

ME - My Husband = EMPTY or NULL or { } or ERROR

This is true guys, I'm not joking..
Then I'm thinking about what God wants. You know, about why I'm here. why He's here.
So, I realized that we are where God wants we to be at this very moment.
Every exprience is part of his divine plan.
Maybe it's can explain why I'm so glad be here. beside my husband. In the middle of jungle.
Even a lot of my friends just didn't believe if I can survive without any glamorous thing in Surabaya, I BELIEVE. As long as God with me. And ofcourse as long as my husband beside me, everthing is possible.

This is called positive energy.

Sanggau memang tempatnya Galau, tapi kalau galau ya berdua sama suami, rasanya ga ada apa-apa nya. Tinggal bagaimana aku mencari kesibukan disini. Sekaligus untuk aktualisasi diri. Menjadi aku yang lebih berguna bagi orang banyak. Dan mencoba untuk mentransfer ilmu ku selama berkuliah di UNAIR dari Diploma sampai Sarjana dalam dunia kerja.

Ouuuyeeaaah, I want to get a job! Berkarier!! And ofcourse in Sanggau, the place where my husband exist. hohoho..

Sebenarnya sudah ada beberapa tawaran kerja saat aku di Surabaya, hanya saja, itu di Surabaya brooo.. Aku pertimbangkan dengan gaji yang di tawarkan, hmmmm.. I guess not.

Aku rasa aku bisa dapat dengan jumlah yang tidak jauh berbeda di sini, di Sanggau, di dekat suamiku :) Insyaallah ya :)

Fyi, aku sudah cetak banyak CV dan segala dokumen pendukungnya untuk melamar pekerjaan di Sanggau. Doakan saya ya!!! Bismillah.. Hap!Hap!Hap!!

Untuk perusahaan yang menerima aku mah, g bakal rugi! Udah kreatif, pinter, pekerja keras, loyal pula.. #tsaaaahh #promosi hahahaaaaa... :))

with super energy,
mrs.devi yanuari
@deviyanuari

Back To Sanggau

Hi there!! Here I am back to Sanggau…

1,5 Bulan aku di Surabaya, menyelesaikan segala urusan berkaitan dengan wisuda. Dan saat semua akhirnya selesai, aku kembali lagi ke Sanggau, di sisi suamiku.

Sudah lama sekali aku tidak membuka blog ku dan berbagi cerita. One of the reason is my netbook bought by my husband. And writing blog in my tablet is not enjoyable. Aura penulis dari diriku langsung hilang begitu saja. Hohohooo..

Padahal, begitu banyak yang aku dapat selama di Surabaya, entah itu pengalaman aktivitas ku selama disana sampai dengan pelajaran-pelajaran yang aku dapat. From laughing 'till crying and back to laughing again.. Yeaaahh.. It's called life, right??

I'm the woman who still in progress of actualization. Still searching about what the hell that makes me happy. And still figure out, What I really really want. I'm 24 years young (refuse to write "years OLD" hahahaaa..) and still encourage my knowledge about life, love and laugh. About partnership and friendshiutp. About friends, best friends and family. About How to achieving my dreams

My head always thinking about "What can I do for people who I love?" "rewWhat should I do to make them happy?" What ini dan What itu… What…What..What…

Have you ever stuck in the situation or moment when you have to be someone else? Because, when you totally become "you" the people on that situation will hurt?? Have you ever stuck on that situation? When someone else in your environment wish "something different" with what you really want?? Because, I had And that situation made me hardly to breath, nyeseeeeekk.. You want to talk but can't. You want to cry but your cry never fall out. You just want to be someone who can make that people happy, because you just too love that people. But , its just not enough. And unfortunately, you screw up!

When I'm in Surabaya, so many times I "waste" to think. Yeah, thinking about how the way I survive. How I still can be my own self without hurting people who I love. Even in the process I screw up (asyeeeemm) but, I still learning. Huft… If only……

In the Other Story,, kemaren aku seperjalanan sama Kasi Umum nya Iwa, Pak Hartawan. He's a nice person. Low Profil. Dan suka ngobrol, which is good. Aku suka di ajak berbincang, so I like this Man. One thing that made me surprise is he recognized me!!! hahahaa.. yes, he know me from my blog. He is a new man in KPP Pratama Sanggau - WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE SIR!! ^o^ . Saat SK beliau turun dan beliau tahu akan ditempatkan di Sanggau, beliau langsung searching di internet What Sanggau is. Then, taraaaa, he found my Blog. He said I have a nice blog. And he loves to read it. heheheee.. jadi maluuu #blushing. Fyi, I feel happy when I know my husband have a good and kind boss. Punya atasan yang baik itu sebuah anugrah lho. Sekaligus bisa untuk di contoh, supaya nanti suatu hari Iwa sudah jadi atasan, dia juga akan menjadi atasan yang baik.. Nice trip with a nice guy.. What a day!  :)

*Oya, untuk di garis bawahi dan di cetak tebal, jalanan di Sanggau MASIH rusak dan kerusakannya MASIH unlogic. Lampu MASIH jarang. And the important thing is aku MASIH betah dan bahagia as long as I'm in beside my husband. Period.

Oke, on my next blog I'll write something more interesting yah..

Tulisanku di atas itu hanya kata-kata yang terlalu lama riwa-riwi di kepalaku..

Next blog I'll write something which more faedah ya..

Anyway, the first time I got back to my house in Sanggau, I was Shocked!!!! Rumahku kayak kapal pecah.. T-T Oh, pelajarannya adalah jangan tinggalkan rumahmu sendirian dengan suamimu… T-T *cubit pipi suami*

With love,

Mrs.devi yanuari